3 Elements of Personal Recovery That Are Life Changing 1- Compassion Compassion is defined as an “empathetic response to the suffering of another.” The question is, “How does this apply to an addiction crisis? If I can’t stop my addiction activities, then how does another’s compassion help?” The compassion that needs to be experienced is “self-compassion”. Going into the recovery process, a struggler is highly critical and judgmental towards who they are. They may be angry at themselves or see themselves as complete failures. They will become self-loathing of themselves as others talk about their shortcomings and their lack of self-discipline. Their own "self-talk" adds to this loathing. There comes a time where this self-loathing will play out in their mind and heart through actions that are harmful to themselves and/or others. Self-compassion is the realization that there’s a lot of pain and suffering in your life and, just maybe... there is another way...
Compassion is the pathway to mercy. Mercy is the dwelling place of grace. Grace is the divine empowerment to be who I am and to act from that identity. Grace is an unmerited gift bestowed upon me. It is available for all who seek it.